People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
Maya Angelou, poet
For those that may not know, Maya Angelou was an American poet, memoirist, and civil rights activist. She published seven autobiographies, three books of essays, several books of poetry, and was credited with a list of plays, movies, and television shows spanning over 50 years (according to Wikipedia). This is a great quote about encouragement which is one of my favorite topics.
My wife has a rule at our house – if you are noticing, feeling, or thinking something positive about someone, you should say it to them, right then without hesitation. No one will ever tire of positive uplifting and authentic affirmation. Each day we should remember how our words can build up our coworkers, customers, spouses, kids, and friends.
This encouragement reminds me of a short story named “The Hospital Window”.
Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room’s only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military, where they had been on vacation. Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene. One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man couldn’t hear the band – he could see it. In his mind’s eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days and weeks passed. One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.
I can think of hundreds of times I left a conversation or received an email where I felt encouraged by someone’s words to me. What encourages me the most are the letters and emails I receive from our customers about the great people of Global Shop Solutions. Every person at Global Shop Solutions has a special talent and I love when our customers recognize this. I receive (literally) dozens of these each week and love personally sharing them with the company. I encourage each of you reading this to find something positive to say about someone every day.
What does this mean to manufacturing? We all know manufacturing isn’t easy. It is easy to get down. It is full of early mornings, late nights, missed lunches, overtimes, coming in on Saturdays, stress, pressure, and 3rd shifts. It is making parts for things you might never get a chance to use – a fancy car, airplanes, or expensive furniture. But it is more often making parts for things that save lives, keep people safe, creates jobs, and improves our quality of life. Be positive, encourage one another and pay your success forward.
Push the Sled blog is written by Dusty Alexander, President & CEO of Global Shop Solutions, because no matter how good you get (at physical fitness, running a manufacturing business or being an ERP user) you can always work harder, get better, and be humble.